Tuesday, December 18, 2012

What Does “Loving All” Really Mean?

          This past week our students concluded their series in conjunction with the season of Advent entitled, Advent Conspiracy.  Here is a snapshot of this series, “We all want our Christmas to be a lot of things. Full of joy. Memories. Happiness. Above all, we want it to be about Jesus. What we don't want is stress. Or debt. Or feeling like we "missed the moment". Advent Conspiracy is a movement designed to help us all slow down and experience a Christmas worth remembering. But doing this means doing things a little differently. A little creatively.  It means turning Christmas upside down.”

Each week includes a discussion question/point that our parents and their students are encouraged to wrestle through together.  The second week’s discussion questions read as follows, “Is there something your family or friends could do together to love those who might be considered ‘the least of these?’” 

                Loving all is a theme that is often talked about, preached on, and wrestled with in Christian circles.  Despite the time we spend talking and hearing about it, I wonder how often we actually follow through with loving everyone.  How often do we look past race, economic differences, and religious backgrounds to truly love someone who is different than us?  How often do we love those people that society deems invisible or detestable, outside of the Christmas season?  How often do we really seek to love others in the manner that Jesus instructed us to in Matthew 25:35-36?  Do we really embrace the idea of “loving all” or is it just something that we like talk about?

            For me personally, this concept of “love all” began to take shape a few years ago when I was attending a youth workers convention in the fall.  We were in Nashville, Tennessee for the convention and it was a wonderful time.  We were blessed to worship with thousands of other youth workers from around the world, hear inspiring messages, learn about how to more effectively reach teenagers, and acquire several “loads” of free stuff from the various ministries in the exhibit hall.  Each night we would go back to our hotel rooms and shift through the various “treasures” that we had acquired.  This was a wonderful feeling that came once every year and we loved it, however this particular year something different happened that changed our thinking about loving other people as Jesus did.

            Each evening as we would leave our sessions we would find ourselves walking through the cold to get back to our hotels, however many of us completely ignored the homeless men/women that were laying on the heating grates, asking for money, or simply wanting to talk.  Many times we would rush off to our hotels completely oblivious to the immediate needs of the people that we walked by, over, or around every night.  One particular evening one of the individuals that I was with, stopped us and asked us to look at a homeless person trying to sleep on a hard metal heating grate for the evening.  They asked us to look through our bags and see if there was anything that we could do to help this person.  We began to dig through our bags, ashamed that for several nights we had walked right by this person (or others like them) without even a second glance.  We found ourselves wrestling with the fact that so many of us had been worshipping and hearing about God’s love but failing to share it.  That night something changed deep in my soul, causing me to look differently at how I love everyone.  I realized that it was not a choice of whether I wanted to or not but something that God called me to do as a Christian.  God doesn’t call us to act when it’s convenient, often times it’s not.  He doesn’t tell us to love others only if we feel like it.  He didn’t back out when He died on a cross for me (and you) so I can’t back out on Him.  Sure, loving everyone the way God loves us may cause us to be uncomfortable or challenged but isn’t that what the life of follower of Christ should embrace?

            So my challenge to you this week is to think of ways that your family or friends can seek to love others as God loves you.  This may put you in an uncomfortable or challenging situation where your stomach knots up but think about the love that Jesus gave us with His death on the cross.  Shouldn’t we be willing to do the same for others because of His love for us?

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